8. Check your motive
Ask yourself, why do I want to marry this lady or this guy. Is it because of his or her money? Is it because of the family they come from? Is it because of your future ambition?
Someone once said, “It’s not your fault if your father is poor, but its your fault if your father in-law is poor” Do you see how some people think? Please do not marry anyone for a selfish reason.And on the flip side, pity is also not a good reason to marry someone. It is not advised as you may end up in a miserable marriage